I had to look up thirst trap.

  • HubertManne@moist.catsweat.comOP
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    She comments on the site “Long haired scruffy woodsman. Yes Please.” so I think the lack of shower and grooming gives him the scruffy, non groomed look. Not showering one day if your normally do does not exactly make you nasty. Im pretty sure my wife like me sometimes less groomed and wild but she also gets excited about very well groomed like when dressing up. Honestly I think its more about her mood than how I look.

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      4 hours ago

      I can go backwoods to a tux and everything in between. My wife is much the same, not so much on the woodsy look yet. Had to talk her out of wearing patent leather boots to hike in.

      Women are exactly like us in that they love variety. People get bored looking at each other when they look the same every single day. Mix it up a little guys!

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        to be honest Im kinda a creature of habit. so I will look the same all the time but that is also why she basically gets to to dress me up as I know the way I am. Your right on variety. I usually grow a beard in the winter (looking for work so this year is an exception) and vacilate between clean shaven and some stubble through the summer. She seems to like it when the season change comes and she gets a new husband. Summer husband and winter husband.