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Cake day: February 3rd, 2025

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  • I know you’re mostly joking but from what I understand it’s this:

    True crime: tries to answer the “why” and there’s the invisible carrot of “justice” that you hope to get in the end. Unsolved mysteries leave you with a crack itch of thinking you can “figure it out,” like a puzzle.

    Gore horror: no “why,” no “justice,” no puzzle, just a brutal description of human suffering. There’s no closure.

    That’s just my hypothesis though ¯\(ツ)











  • I’m going to pretend you’re asking in good faith and would genuinely like to learn.

    “Stimming” is “sensory stimulation,” or self-regulating behavior. When used in this context it’s not sexual. It helps (typically neurodivergent, but I’d argue most) people better process the environment around them by having a sensory input they can focus on.

    Examples of stimming are hand-flapping (waving one’s hands around), clicking a pen, listening to music, tapping one’s toes, chewing gum, just to name a few. I’m willing to bet you have stims that you may not even realize, and that’s perfectly okay.

    TL;DR: Stimming = fidgeting that helps you focus/calm down, it’s not perverted.