You’ve already shown that you’re not willing to engage in a good faith discussion about this, why would I waste my time trying to have an interesting discussion about patriarchies, societal expectations, and biology with you.

I’m not anthropology 101 and I’m not your professor. This is very basic shit.

Yeah it does lol

If men were the ones to get and be pregnant for most of a year and women were able to ejaculate multiple times a day, our society would be structured differently.

At the end of the day, no one is being forced to pay.

It’s the whole women get pregnant thing that I was referencing, my dude.

I always split bills on the first date regardless of the gender of my date. If men went behind my back to pay the entire bill after I said I wanted to split, I would never see them again.

There’s plenty of women that have their own money. If you don’t want to date a woman who doesn’t want to split on dates, just don’t date her.

Society didn’t determine that so much as biology did.

Regardless, splitting the bill on a date is so completely different and not comparable to splitting shared marital assets during a divorce.

I thought they were more common than they are apparently!

I think the pretense of bikini was left by the wayside almost immediately when these types of coffee stands came around haha

Never around that particular coworker lol

Had a middle-aged coworker that I carpooled with occasionally when I was younger. Totally chill for the most part, we left early in the morning and generally just listened to the radio quietly.

He offered to get me coffee while we were on the road one day. Pulled into a bikini barista drive-thru. The gal working asked if I was his daughter.

I didn’t carpool with him after that lol

I’ve got a body and it’s going to be summer. It’s perfect :D

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Humans are pretty bad at communication and there are a bunch of different ways a joke like that could have landed and it’s all dependent on the people involved.

One person’s joke to gently point out that their kid is probably grabbing too much stuff can easily be another person’s brusque and dismissive comment about their kid being lazy.

I’m sorry that your feelings were hurt by your mom.

Nah you were being snarky and you know it.

Are you seriously asking for evidence on this? That some work should be done meticulously and some work can be done quickly and that it can be situational?

Really?

They literally provide two examples on quality of work vs time spent on work before the song link.

when I was a kid. I was helping bring in the groceries and was carrying as much as I could (which was a lot, but obviously not more than I could handle)

Y’know that children are notoriously bad at judging things like that, right? Obviously I don’t know the guy, but I would have easily said this as a joke at how many things my kid was trying to carry at once even though that ups the odds of dropping and breaking things.

Why fix it when it’s the truth?