Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.al to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 month agoI'm hungrylazysoci.alimagemessage-square16linkfedilinkarrow-up1420
arrow-up1420imageI'm hungrylazysoci.alLady Butterfly @lazysoci.al to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 month agomessage-square16linkfedilink
minus-squareSemperverus@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·1 month agoThis person sounds incredibly selfish and entitled. I bet they’d expect you to be the one buying the snacks too.
minus-squaresurewhynotlem@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up7·1 month agoIt’s ok to have boundaries. That’s not selfish.
minus-squareSemperverus@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·1 month agoUltimatems aren’t boundaries.
minus-squaresurewhynotlem@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4·1 month agoAn ultimatum is you have to do x. A boundary is “I won’t do x” I won’t go on a trip if there’s no snacks. Some people will phase ultimatums as boundaries to manipulate, but this isn’t that.
This person sounds incredibly selfish and entitled. I bet they’d expect you to be the one buying the snacks too.
It’s ok to have boundaries. That’s not selfish.
Ultimatems aren’t boundaries.
An ultimatum is you have to do x. A boundary is “I won’t do x”
I won’t go on a trip if there’s no snacks.
Some people will phase ultimatums as boundaries to manipulate, but this isn’t that.
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