• ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Honestly I feel like human interaction has just become fake or hostile. You’re either lying to avoid conflict or dealing with conflict. It’s so much easier to just deal with the loneliness than try to jump through all these social hoops.

    With that said I’m autistic so that might be why it’s so painful for me to deal with.

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    11 months ago

    I was that adolescent too, not long ago.

    This comic has an unpleasant ending, if you think of the person as being depressed, isolating himself, and in the end committing suicide.

    I don’t want to ruin the fun, but had to mention this to make it clear…

    No matter how grim life seems to be, you should definitely look for help or any relative to talk to about how you feel.

    There are no magic solutions, but you can feel better. And you deserve to feel better.

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      11 months ago

      I would also iterate to the other side, that sometimes people going through depression or the like may feel embarrassed or shy about exposing their pain. As it may make them close off even more, so you don’t want to be too “helpful” and force it.

      Keep in mind that a lot of times people aren’t really needing any advice or anything but just need an ear to air out their problems. Also, if you are wanting to give advice, try to be less; “you should…” and more “have you tried…”

      Depression is a very, very touchy subject and needs to be handled with a lot of care.

  • Gekoloniseerd@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    This is on top on lemmy, don’t be scared to communicate with friends/family. You are loved and more than welcome to join any kind of social interaction.