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    I don’t see the humor. Just some dick being disrespectful to a person that trusts them.

    ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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      It seems to be pretty lighthearted to me personally. There might be some context that would make this a dick move but it doesn’t look that way based on this meme

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        Her face doesn’t convey a light-hearted situation. That’s your context.

        And frankly, clarifying an openly disrespectful act as ok, because it’s “light-hearted”, is ridiculous.

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            I always picture anyone who says touch grass as being surrounded by piss bottles sitting in a chair with huge stains in it.

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              Is it because you can’t imagine the outside? You know, the place with plants and grass.

              And not the grass you smoke either.

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                23 days ago

                That the best you can do? Say the same thing over again with a few pointless changes.

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          You say that but it looks to me like she’s trying not to laugh. I’m pretty sure I make a similar expression when my wife and I jokingly argue about silly things.

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      does vacuum sealing actually do any damage? I thought if you open it up it’s unharmed.

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        large pushies are often vacuum sealed before shipping overseas to minimize package space.

        source: bought a 30cm plushie overseas in july

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        Depends on the type of stuffing. On a small, soft one like that, it’s generally fine. Larger stiffer stuffed animals may have a styrofoam core, in which case it depends on the strength of the vacuum pump.

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        You’re being downvoted but I was legitimately under that impression as well. Is it not actually the case??

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      It doesn’t damage the plushie (that’s how they are stored in warehouses), she can just open the bag.

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        If that’s all it takes then you never were going to have it long anyway. Very fragile.

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          Some people are indeed that fragile. Often from trauma. I suspect that’s not the case here tho.

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        It’s litterally how this same plush was transported and stored before getting to her. You make it seem like a huge deal but it isn’t

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    If anyone did that to any of my stuffed animals, we’d be fighting to the death. Ain’t nobody doing that to one of my children and getting away with it!

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      What the hell are you talking about she looks objectively pretty and normal in this photo, you’re the weird ones if you think every picture of yours posted online needs you to be dolled up

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      Right?! So many people talking abt trust, and disrespecting her stuff… the plushie is fine. If my man posted a pic of me that looked like that I would be like “oh, this man hates me, got it.” Girl is obviously a cutie, but like, yikes this photo is bad.

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          I love to send and recieve “ugly” or silly pics with my friends and lovers, that doesn’t mean I want them posted on the internet. Idk this girl, we’re not friends irl, maybe she’s fine with it. If someone that I trusted and loved posted a picture of me making a face like the face the girl in this picture is making, mid sentence, with my eyebrows furrowed and my tongue looking weird like I’m in the middle of a word, I would be really embarassed, especially if it then got memeified and shared over and over and over again.

          This is not a criticism of the girl in the picture whatsoever. Anyone saying “this is a great picture!” is being ingenuine on purpose. She’s a pretty girl. This is a bad picture of her. Both can be true.

          Also this is not meant to be an aggressive comment! But the internet takes things too seriously sometimes.

          Whatever! Have a great day! May all your photos be stunners! xoxo

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      I think that’s the girlfriend, but I think it’s generally frowned upon to use terms like yellow to describe people.

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      Only ones I could read are: 暗 and ヨ

      But the rest, no way to make them out between the quality and the shirt folds.

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        Yeah the second one looks like ヨ and ⺉ but those two together aren’t a character. I thought it might be 里 after that but it didn’t help anyway.

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          Oh good catch, yeah that one next to ヨ could very well be リ/it’s similar-looking radical. Maybe put together in a sentence, it might start out reading “暗より(stylized in katakana)…”, so for those who don’t know Japanese, it’s like “More than dark/darkness…”

          Also of note for those unaware: in Japanese, this kind of sentence structure is commonly used especially in more casual or stylized blurbs/slogans/one-liners etc.

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      My wife is 30s and has plushies. Hell I’m a 40s male and I have one. Calm down

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          Maybe you should, because your views doesn’t seem to be based on reality, no doubt because you couldn’t care less about learning new things from other people’s perspective.

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      Back in the 2000’s, I’ve heard a lot of conservative men telling youthful looking and/or acting women (and teens of course) to “age themselves up” with various ways, so it wouldn’t be “pedophilic” to be attracted to them. Deepen their voice, grow out their pubic hair if they were shown naked, sometimes even the suggestion that they should get a plastic surgery to look mature enough in a good way (not the wrinkles, they’re bad of course). They only abandoned this kind of view once feminist media critique became mainstream, and certain bad parts of it wasn’t actively called out due to most critique of feminist media critique was extremely bad faith, so stuff like this ended up in progressive circles.

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        Thanks for the background. I think it is not about banning certain behavior/looks, but to educate, so that they can make mature decisions on their own. Things that go through my mind, when I saw this meme:

        • i would not want to date someone that looks like a child
        • playing with plush does not help that fact
        • I would never want to be exposed on the internet while looking this wasted
        • I would never want to expose my partner in such a vulnerable moment.

        So they don’t look like kids, but are obviously emotionally very immature as well. But as you can see, psychological problems get tons of support, making it look like it is normal to not treat that.